My wife said to me " why don't you get some of those pills that gives you an erection"..i went into the bathroom and got her a bottle of diet pills..i'm still looking for a place to stay
When people argue..... They say hurtful thing...... you get over it..... Every now and then they hit below the belt...... that talks a little bit more to get over.... but you get over it..... then there are those times they went beyond below the belt.... they flat out walked up kicked you in the balls and ripped your heart out.....
That is something that you won’t ever get over.... MAYBE get past... but it will forever change how you see someone.... and how you see yourself..... when you decide to make those comments.... it better be over something pretty important.... because it will forever change how the other person see's you.... and how they see themselves....
Scrapes bumps and bruises you can get over.... broken bones takes a bit longer but you do...... now you have your heart ripped out.... you are forever changed from that moment on....
No matter what words you say to the other person.... no matter the “I’m sorry”........”That was wrong”....... “I didn’t mean it”...... it doesn’t and won’t matter... it won’t help or change the damage done…. It will never be the same…..
If you respond with……“You did the same thing to me” is even worse at that point….. It makes the person look back even harder at the ENTIRE relationship and realize the relationship hasn’t been what they thought it was …. The entire relationship….…….. So be very careful not to say that…….
People know when they are kicking someone in the balls and ripping their heart out…. So you have just now done even MORE damage…. If you say “You have done it to me”
If those words come out of your mouth at that point it shows you’re a gutter fighting eye for an eye person….
That’s how they will see you from now on…. So if you’re not that person… don’t say it………..
It is like hitting them with a shovel after you kicked them in the balls and ripped their heart out….it shows you really want to hurt them as much as possible……….you ripped their heart out and it will never ever be the same.....
Be damn sure whatever you were arguing about.... was worth it to you.... because the person you said it too.... will be forever changed in who they are, how they think, how they see themselves and how they see you as a person....
Maybe even start to question every day they have ever known you and wonder every day forward....
Is that how they have always seen me??..... Forever changed.....
Lola just informed me that dicks have a hard life: their hair is always a mess, their family is nuts, their closest neighbor is an asshole, their best friend is a pussy and their owners beat them.